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Small towns have their charm, but not when you are a single male, so IMO going to a neighboring city, within a 100 miles would be your best best.....there isn't a place within 100 miles, move!! Even worse, I've never even so much as held a girl's hand. I mean don't get me wrong, I always had desires, but it just didn't seem worth the effort to put myself out there, considering that my self confidence was/is pretty low.I'm frustrated/lonely/horny like 24/7 now and it's really starting to take it's toll. I am married now so if I can find someone at age 40, what more you?I think OLD is fine for people who are already adept at dating in real life, but can be horrible experiences for those who don't have experience.You may have to put some miles on the odometer in order to get out.I'm not really into frequenting bars, and even if I was, the closest one of note is about 70 miles.I really think that irl encounters would help you a lot better than OLD.
We don't even have a damn coffee shop where I live. I guess I just need to talk about it and hopefully get some advice that will help me move forward.
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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. I've always been pretty socially awkward, and up until recently, quite happy to be alone. I'm just not particularly social, and have always preferred my own company to that of others.
There were small groups of women who went to learn to Salsa Swing dance etc.....plenty of them, where they ended up dancing with each other, since not enough men were there. BTW, it builds confidence, because once you have the knowledge, it's pretty sweet to be able to own it when you walk into a club.
You just need to do whatever it takes to place yourself amongst women of your age group. I've always been pretty socially awkward, and up until recently, quite happy to be alone. I'm just not particularly social, and have always preferred my own company to that of others.
All of a sudden, I wanted all those "normal" things. I'm afraid I haven't been any more successful in the past year than I had been the first 29 though.