Dating caribbean women
In the same breath, you can hear the island woman, in all her frustration, “Girl I am so sick and tired of these (___insert island heritage here__) men.” Citing constant mantras of “all a dem wutless,” making reference to their slightly accurate dating acumen that island men are more or less engineered to cheat.
Believing this, but all at once, hoping to meet the gentleman who will defy this truth.
There are a few stages of dating for the ” Caribbean-American female.
As is the tendency of any specie, we first seek our likeness in others.
In fact, several Caribbean men can now be seen sporting Latin women on their arms.
When I spoke to one of my Jamaican male friends about this new-found preference, he stated that he’d rather date a Jamaican girl but they make the courting process difficult.
In addition, ALL MEN/WOMEN don’t __________ (fill in the blanks with whatever mantra you’ve caught yourself perpetuating). As a Caribbean immigrant, the preservation of culture tends to be of great importance when conversations surrounding family planning are had. The swag of the Jamaican man is to this day unmatched.Testing the waters, only to find that the Indies seem to generate men who have been cut from the very same cloth.The final stage differs for some and ranges from, “anything but a ‘_____an’ man” to “It’s so much easier to date outside of our race.” And what about the men, given the current climate, island men don’t want to date island women either.
It is comfortable and familiar to us and so we find ourselves in situations and scenes where we are likely to meet other islanders.