Dating a man whose divorce is not final
A divorce decree does not mean someone is ready to date, and not having a divorce decree yet does not mean someone isn’t ready to date.
My specific advice for my two readers (above) is: 1.
We became fast friends, bonding through shared interests.
I knew he was married with two young girls, but had no idea he was going through a separation, until he finally told me the situation had been going on for almost 2 years.
For the first guy, I think he should stay in touch with the online woman he felt connected to, and maybe send her a link to this article!
In the meantime, he should just be himself, be upfront with the women he meets that he isn’t divorced yet, and keep dating. For the 27 year-old, besides being very impressed with her maturity, I think she is being extremely thoughtful.
I would like to know, from your perspective, if this is a period that I should be around for, or if it’s something that he needs to go through alone?
The problem is this; I met someone online and we really connected.
A quick background: I met him about a year ago through work.
Pilossoph holds a Masters degree in journalism from Boston University.
The older we get, the more inevitable it's going to be we date people who already have a marriage behind their belt.