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Nerds, geeks, dorks, and the like are special types of people, and it’s no longer an insult to call someone one of these names.
Harry Potter is my geeky passion of choice because, like millions of others, I’ve been a fan since I was a kid.
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Job interviews have similar dynamics - just instead of getting laid you want to land a job (you need to rather than express your neediness).
The topic dating may sound ambiguous - is it about looking for casual sex or the search for the love of your life?
Sure, there is no shortage of Internet dating advice.
Some great minds consider this problem notoriously hard: How to help all the young male nerds I meet who suffer from [the dating] problem, in a way that passes feminist muster, and that triggers the world’s sympathy rather than outrage[?
] I believe that, just as there are shy, nerdy men, there are also shy, nerdy women, who likewise suffer from feeling unwanted, sexually invisible, or ashamed to express their desires. :) I spiked it with numerous references, so even if you fine with dating, you may find a few interesting links (I am an unabashed link hoarder). Ideally, I would send it to my younger self (say, 15-25yo - the sooner the better), so as to be spared a lot of unnecessary emotional pain, feelings of loneliness, rejection and isolation. Most people struggle with it at some point, not only nerds. At the same time, the bar is not so high - all you need is to get a bit of understanding of yourself, your body, other people and dating dynamics.
Most of advice here will be focused how to get to this moment.
Also, if you are on the recipient side of a nerd’s (however clumsy) courtship, I hope that you will learn a bit about his POV and be able to help him (whether it means taking command or turning him down in a clear but graceful way).
It is a soft, opinionated and personal matter, inadvertently revealing my secrets and vulnerabilities. But I see the profound change from something being frustrating to a field where I feel well.